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Why FOMO Hurts More Than Loss

Why FOMO Hurts More Than Loss

Understanding the emotional weight of unrealized potential — and how to move through it.

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Jul 27, 2025
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You were right.

You saw the setup. You anticipated the move.

But you didn’t take it — and now it’s gone. And even though your brain says, “It’s fine, there will be another chance…” you still feel like you lost something.

That’s FOMO — the fear of missing out.

Studies1 show that missing a gain feels worse than taking a loss.

Losses can be processed, reviewed, understood. But when you miss a trade you should have taken — or almost took — there’s no closure. Just… unrealized potential.

Most traders think the solution is more discipline. But the solution isn’t to force yourself to feel nothing. It’s to understand what FOMO is — and reframe your relationship with it.

In today’s post, we’ll explore the two most common forms of FOMO:

  1. Missed trades (the setups you didn’t take)

  2. Missed gains (the profits you left on the table)

You’ll learn:

  • Why FOMO is rooted in grief

  • How to handle hesitation, unclear triggers, and overloaded watchlist

  • How to deal with post-win regret

  • Why you’ll never eliminate FOMO — and a practical tool to handle it.

After today’s post, you’ll walk away with clear tools to change your relationship with FOMO.

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